Does Back to School mean
Back to Worry for
You + your Tween or Teen?
Hey Parents, does any of this sound familiar?
↪ You start to see red when mid-conversation your teen picks up his phone to "snap" his friend. Over and over and over again.
↪ Something doesn't smell quite right. And, it's not just that your teen forgot deodorant. You keep smelling something that is a little reminiscent of skunk. You begin to wonder what your teen is up and realize you aren't sure how to even have a conversation around drugs.
↪ You aren't sure if your words hit the mark with your teen because her earbuds were in. Oh wait. They aren't in and you start realizing that she may just be ignoring you.
↪ You feel like you need a teen dictionary and translator to understand not just the meaning of memes that your teen references but why this is even part of his or her world.
↪ You are constantly met with statements (and screams) of "OMG. You don't understand anything! You are sooooo dumb!" And, you start to feel like maybe you don't understand anything and maybe you really are that dumb. (trust me, you aren't.)
↪ You are beginning to feel like understanding theoretical physics, abstract algebra and modern political philosophy - combined - may be easier than understanding your teen.
↪ Or, you simply look at your teen and wonder, "Is this normal? Is he or she normal? Am I normal? Should I start saving for a lifetime of therapy for us all?"
You are not alone.
Thousands of parents shake their head with bewilderment, amusement and worry every single day when it comes to navigating life with teens. It can be downright confusing, right? It doesn't always have to be that way. There truly is art, science and a bit of adventure around life with teens.
Take a Moment to Imagine This...
↪ Rather than see red when your teen picks up his phone to snap mid-conversation, you reply with a choice of staying or excusing himself … and he chooses to stay in the conversation.
↪ Something doesn't smell quite right. And, it still isn’t that your teen forgot to put on deodorant. However, this time you are able to ask a question that invites conversation rather than suspicion.
↪ You are know when your words hit the mark because you know what, when and how to speak with your teen.
↪ When your teen references a meme and you respond with “Damn Daniel,” your teen looks at you like you just leveled up to Parent of the Year.
↪ You are constantly met with statements (and screams) of "OMG. You don't understand anything! You are sooooo dumb!" and you respond with you, “Maybe I don’t understand; can you explain it so I can?” And, your teen does. You do now understand, and your teen opens up more and more.
↪ You are beginning to feel like understanding theoretical physics, abstract algebra and modern political philosophy - combined - may be easier than understanding your teen. And, it times it will feel that way. However, you know have the tips, tools and experts at your fingertips to earn an A in the language and life of teens.
↪ Or, you simply look at your teen and wonder, "Is this normal? Is he or she normal? Am I normal? Should I start saving for a lifetime of therapy for us all?" And, then you realize what is normal anyway. You are crafting a new normal that works for your teen and for yourself so you give yourself a giant pat on the back. (You deserve it, rockstar!)
Introducing the
What to Do When
Insider's Circle
What to Do When
Insider's Circle
Your place to get the scoop and the support on life with teens.
"We just wanted to thank you for all of your help when we were struggling with our daughter. After listening to your tips, we realized that we had to change what we were doing before anything was going to change with her. Today, we are getting along so much better. We are so grateful for all your help and caring."
S.L., mom of 1 (age 14)
The Insider's Circle is like having the golden key to unlock the secrets of teens and their world.
The Insider's Circle includes:
The Insider's Circle includes:
The Insider's Monthly Lesson
Led by Julie Smith, licensed psychotherapist, behaviorist and teen expert, you receive a recorded lesson every month on the concerns + issues teens are faced with daily. A sampling of upcoming lessons will address include:
How to Talk so Your Teen will Listen (and Listen so Your Teen will Talk!)
Identifying Depression + Anxiety in your Teen
Taking about Sex, Sexual Orientation + Gender Identity
How to Navigate Technology + Social Media
Addressing Vaping, Alcohol and Drug Use with Teens
The Insider's Monthly Q+A
Each month, Julie Smith gives you the answers to your most pressing questions about raising teenagers.
Submit your questions prior and then feel free to join me live or watch the recording when it works for you. All video calls are also available as MP3 audios so you can listen on the go!
Guest Interviews
Recorded guest interviews with leading experts and authors across the globe on topics like:
Interviews address communication; conflict resolution; stress and overwhelm; effective study habits and hacks; navigating technology; life transitions such as divorce or loss of a family member; mental and emotional health; building a support network and more.
Teen Talks
Have you ever had a burning question that you've wanted to ask a teen? Here's your chance!
As an Insider Circle member, you have access to our “Teen Talk” interviews with today’s teens answering your questions and providing you the insider’s peek into the day-in-a-life of middle-schoolers, high-schoolers and college students.
Pep Talks
Additional videos, audios and articles from Julie and from other leading experts to keep you in-the-know while also providing your continued support.
Community + Support
Find your tribe with ongoing support in through our community forums and Facebook group. Engage with Julie, her team and fellow Insider's Circle members to share what's on your mind.
Resource Library
Additional videos, audios and articles from Julie and from other leading experts to keep you in-the-know while also providing your continued support.
Bonuses
You'll also receive access in your library to the invaluable bonuses for parents of teens including What to Do When Parent Mini-Guide, "Meet the Tween" and What to Do When your Tween or Teen is in Crisis
For a limited time, you get all that for just $49 a month.
You can get access to the monthly masterclasses, live Q+A's, guest interviews, Teen Talks and countless other pep talks, resources and access to our community to help you navigate the adolescent years with your teen.
Let's be honest, as parents, you likely just dropped far more than $50 this month on something for your teen (sweatpants, makeup or new earbuds, weekly lattes.)
Membership in the Insider's Circle is less than that AND not only will it help YOU,
your teen may actually say "Whoa. Dude, you like totally get me. I love you."
Membership in the Insider's Circle is less than that AND not only will it help YOU,
your teen may actually say "Whoa. Dude, you like totally get me. I love you."
"The work you do is so important. You have a gift that rises above degrees and clinical knowledge. You have the ability to touch people and make a difference. As a parent who felt helpless, frightened and out of my depth when faced with issues I never thought I would have to face, I am grateful you have been there to help, not just my daughter, but our entire family navigate through these difficult times."
M.T. mom of three (ages 12, 13 and 16)
A little more about Julie...
Hi there! As an adolescent specialist and licensed psychotherapist, I spend my days supporting teens, parents and schools. As the parent of three teens, I also spend my days (and nights!) navigating the ups and downs of the adolescent years.
This is why I created the Insider's Circle.
For almost three decades, I have dedicated myself to the field of family and adolescent development. I specialize not only in helping parents + professionals speak teen, but I also offer support during high-risk, high-need situations.
The Insider's Circle is the safe space to get the information you need now (without having to filter through endless web searches, read every book on the market or just pull your hair out in frustration). With confidentiality and connection at the forefront, you can get answers and receive the support you need to help yourself and your teen.
I look forward to meeting you soon!
✓ Monthly Recorded Lessons + Interviews on the Issues Affecting You + Your Teen Right Now
✓ Straight-from-the-Source Interviews with Teens on what They Wish You *Really* Knew
✓ Timely Answers to your Burning Questions about Teens
✓ Consistent Online Community, Support + Encouragement
✓ 24/7 Access to your Learning + Resource Library
✓ BONUS #1: What to Do When Your Teen is In Crisis
✓ BONUS #2: What to Do When "Meet the Tween."
Receive an additional two months for free with our annual membership.
"Julie was a very small price to pay to give us peace of mind. I’d pay over and over again."
J.K. mom of 2 (ages 11 and 13)
FAQs
- When are video lessons released? Typically, a new lesson is released on the first Tuesday of every month. Guest interviews and "TeenSpeak" videos are released on the third Tuesday of the month.
- When are the Q+A calls? The monthly Q+A call is the third Tuesday of the month at 9am Pacific Time. (Heads up - Julie often does an extra Q+A on Friday mornings)
- How do I submit a question for the Q+A call? Julie answers questions live on the call. However, the best way to have your questions answered is to submit them in our online membership portal prior to the call.
- What if I can't make a Q+A call live? Can't make it live? No worries. Q+A sessions are always recorded. The replay of each call is posted within 24-hours in the member portal so no matter what time zone on, you can listen at your convenience.
- Can I cancel if it's not the right fit for me? Yup. If you need to cancel for any reason, simply login into your online portal and cancel. Your membership will stop at the end of your next monthly or annual membership cycle.
- Can I get a refund if I cancel before the next billing cycle? We do not offer refunds or pro-rated rates; however, you can cancel your membership at any time. You will have access to the materials until your next monthly or annual membership cycle.